Carla and I are working oh-so-hard to make matters better in each of our worlds. After my 3rd spousal relationship ended, , and let us only say it is over, please, I only recognized it had become time to force a change. And not just some change, I am talking a serious shift, honey.

Yet it only looks like everyone wants to keep me down. Life is so difficult, isn’t it? When I saw my doctor to talk about the tummy tuck price I was quoted, he only ragged me about getting the proper form of fitness. He recognizes I have been doing everything I can, smearing on the scar zone cream and making all my beauty salon equipment to earn their cost.

But he only keeps lecturing me about diet and exercise, saying to me my body will improve over the long term if I treat it as if I love it.

He’s big on biking, but I enjoined him bicycle seats bother me and I just cannot fathom wearing those tight cycling jerseys. Is he trying to humiliate me? At least he became a little more moderate when he began talking about things I could do in the comfort of my own house.

Exercise bikes may certainly work easier for me than bicycling out in public and weight-lifting benches and exercise mats are a little more my speed.

Yet I likewise argue that I obtain enough fitness in my day-to-day life. Just last calendar week I got tons of exercise tugging around Charlene’s garden cart while we decorated her backyard for her sister’s party. Arranging the outdoor bench layout for open-air party seats after moving the Weber 751001 Charcoal Grill made for some good weight lifting. And then the stretches and effort necessary to make all those string lights set right was like aerobic exercise.

Does it sound like I am making excuses? I don’t care, friend, that was hard work! After all that partyin’ and decoratin’ I bet I burned 1000 calories. I challenge some treadmill joggin’ sap to press garden carts around for four hours and reckon how they feel.

I don’t mean to seem whiny. I’ll get it all together. I just wish individuals would sometimes focus on what I have finished instead of what I still need to do. I know it isn’t easy being you, but it is not easy being me, either. We all have to work strong to be prosperous, I venture.